Just started using oob and very impressed. Having trouble adding a user/friend to "my friends". I can find him, but how do I add him to my list of friends?

you click the add to friends button.However he must agree to be your friend.He will get a message informing him that you want to be his friend'then he must agree.

Thanks Werepuppie. I don't know why this is, but my friend's page doesn't give me that option. His username is "deankb". I've looked at other user's pages and now I see the "add to friends" button... just not on my friend's page. Weird.

I encountered this problem myself.I think that once you click add to friends the option disappears until he replies.

Yes, that is correct. It only lets you request to be a friend once (so you people aren't spamed with requests). Your friend will see the request in the top right when he logs in and will get an email. Once you accepts, he will show up in your friends list.