Not a member? Join now to track your game, create a group, find courses, find golfers, and browse equipment all for FREE.
Forums:   Index  |  Search  |  Forum FAQ  |  Private Messages

When playing with people you dont know....
Goto page 1, 2  Next
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    oobgolf Forum Index -> Etiquette
View previous topic :: View next topic  

Author

Message

Kickntrue

Joined: 27 Jun 2006
Posts: 394

PostPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 3:10 pm    Post subject: When playing with people you dont know....

Reply with quote


I had the experience yesterday of being put into a group of golfers I didn't know. All 3 were random.

So my question is- if you are playing with randomos- what etiquette should you follow for things like walking to your tee shot?

Should you always stop at the first ball- or is it ok to walk ahead of the group to your ball if it isnt in the path of the hitter? Everyone yesterday stopped and waited while I walked ahead. I kinda of felt bad- but we were trying to beat the sun. Why should I wait for some short hitter when I could be ready to hit?
_________________
Kickntrue-
Duffing since 1993
madfmf18
Joined: 07 Sep 2007
Posts: 5

PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 2:57 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


it depends on the situation if you watch the pros they will walk ahead of the other player as long as time allows or if you are far enough out of eye sight example 25 30 yards off to one side.
 
TaylorFade

Joined: 05 Jun 2007
Posts: 84

PostPosted: Sun May 25, 2008 12:46 am    Post subject:

Reply with quote


I don't mind if someone goes to their ball, but some people are picky about that stuff. If you don't want to wait, at least stop walking when they address their ball. But when in doubt, just wait.
 
jeep5981

Joined: 16 Jun 2008
Posts: 17

PostPosted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:54 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


I usually try to stay out of the fellows' eyesight if they're addressing their shot and my ball is in front of them. The polite thing to do is just stay out of sight until after they hit. Same goes for putting
 
hondolane

Joined: 20 Apr 2008
Posts: 55

PostPosted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 4:27 am    Post subject:

Reply with quote


I ask if they dont mind if I walk ahead.. I make an effort to stay out of the way. Also, it helps my game.. I can be ready and mentally set for that particular shot if I am ahead and waiting my turn.

If i have to walk or drive right up, go thru pre shot, address and hit.. seems to be too much all at once... hurried is the term.

By walking up, you can be ready to hit when its your turn, take your time, and still have a quick round.

"take the time it takes, and it will take less time."
- Pat Parelli
 
SilkySmoothFlatStick

Joined: 14 Jun 2008
Posts: 31

PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:38 am    Post subject:

Reply with quote


Guys walking or driving ahead does not bother me a bit. But, if I bean you with a ball, I don't want to hear them cry or bitch about it.

Most of the time, the problem with guys moving ahead is the distraction of them moving around trying to address their ball, pick clubs, making practice swings....etc. Those guys usually make a terrible shot rushing up to hit their shot, because they don't think..they just react.
 
blue_crush

Joined: 01 Sep 2008
Posts: 73

PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 1:06 am    Post subject:

Reply with quote


everyone has to agree from the start that there going to play Ready Golf... some people do not take kindly to putting out of order or hitting 1st cause there ready. you have to talk to the whole group and see what everyone else wants. that makes the rest of the round go way more smoothly... I once played with this older guy like 85, and he could play. but he wanted to go 1st on everything, hitting, putting, you name it he just walked up and would hit away. I felt like well he played the game this long and no one has killed him yet, so I guess he has earned the right to go 1st...
come to think of it he never mentioned his wife,
I wonder if she said something....lol
 
kidputter

Joined: 04 Feb 2008
Posts: 390

PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 5:41 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


Maybe he was in a hurry to get the round in before he kicked the bucket.
 
blue_crush

Joined: 01 Sep 2008
Posts: 73

PostPosted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 1:12 am    Post subject:

Reply with quote


bradclardy wrote:
Most of the time, the problem with guys moving ahead is the distraction of them moving around trying to address their ball, pick clubs, making practice swings....etc.


one thing with walking ahead is that you should at least be looking at or watching for his shot, because even a good player hitting a shot and seeing someone ahead of them not looking at you and knowing is a distraction for the hitter as he may be thinking that if he shanks one now he has to yell for you to duck or FORE...
otherwise ready golf is widely accepted as the way to play faster now days...
Rpoole11
Joined: 01 Dec 2008
Posts: 15

PostPosted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 3:52 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


I will usually walk ahead unless I'm directly in their line of play, even then I'll sometimes walk ahead to the side if I can stay out of their line of sight easily enough. I think the main thing is to always make sure you keep an eye on their shot and make sure you pause once they address the ball.
 
falcon50driver

Joined: 22 Aug 2006
Posts: 1235

PostPosted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 8:43 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


Do not walk or ride ahead of someone's shot. It's as rude as talking on a cell phone on the golf course.
 
woobwoob

Joined: 10 Nov 2008
Posts: 13

PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 1:27 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


The only time that I will go ahead is when i've sliced/hooked it way off the fairway and need that additional time to ensure that I don't hold everyone else up.

Other than that, I try to stay with the group. There may be times I don't but when playing with people I don't know, I try to stay with them.
 
Farm_kid

Joined: 23 Jun 2007
Posts: 26

PostPosted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 11:09 am    Post subject:

Reply with quote


If it is a group of 4, I think Ready Golf is essential. If a group of 3, it depends on the skill level. If 2, then wait.
Jake Bogardus

Joined: 03 Jul 2008
Posts: 29

PostPosted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:21 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


Simple solution: Get friends and play with them, that way you don't have to worry about offending them, lol

Real Solution: Just be smart about it, don't get in his/her way but at the same time you are playing your own game too so focus on what helps you play best within being respectful of those around you
 
ipv6freely

Joined: 22 Apr 2009
Posts: 264

PostPosted: Sun May 03, 2009 11:05 pm    Post subject:

Reply with quote


woobwoob wrote:
The only time that I will go ahead is when i've sliced/hooked it way off the fairway and need that additional time to ensure that I don't hold everyone else up.

Other than that, I try to stay with the group. There may be times I don't but when playing with people I don't know, I try to stay with them.


This is how I feel also. If me waiting means I'm holding everyone up for longer than necessary, I go to my ball. I just stop and wait once they actually get to their ball.
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    oobgolf Forum Index -> Etiquette All times are GMT - 5 Hours
Goto page 1, 2  Next
Page 1 of 2

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum